Nineteen-year-old Edona Besnik Caku had never
been to a public school until she came to Toronto's York Memorial Collegiate
Institute five years ago.
It's odd enough for the Albanian teenager to see her classmates in baggy pants
and tight tops with feet dangling on their desks, not to mention sitting next to
kids who came in all colours and from all backgrounds.
"Albania is a very homogeneous country. When you have everyone coming from the
same background, you all tend to think the same. You tend not to appreciate
those who do not conform," said Caku, winner of the 2005 New Pioneers Youth
Award.
"It's no cliché. In a diverse society, you challenge your own ideas and really
learn to disregard the issue of ethnic and religious differences, and discover
the essence of humanity."
Life took a 180-degree turn for Caku and her two younger sisters in 2000 when
they followed their parents — mother, a lawyer, and father, a university
professor — to flee political instability back home.
From a monster luxury home, they packed themselves into a one-bedroom apartment
in Toronto and started learning English.
"In Albania, we had a big house. Everybody knew who my parents were. Here we had
to start from zero. We're nobody," noted Caku, who is now in her second year of
the medical radiation sciences program offered through the University of Toronto
and the Michener Institute.
Caku, who speaks French and Italian, knew she needed a good command of English
in order to excel in school. She spent a year in ESL and stayed in the library
after school every day to listen to English tapes and read grammar books.
"I used to speak English with a thick accent and people would judge me on that.
They'd label me, `Oh, you're an immigrant,'" Caku said.
"The irony is now I got rid of my accent and people thought that I was born
here. But that's not true for my Asian friends, who were born here and speak
perfect English. So because I'm Caucasian, I am more Canadian?"
That's when Caku decided to devote more of her time to the school's anti-racism
club and other activities such as mentoring, tutoring and a national student
exchange program.
In university, Caku, who graduated high school with a 94 per cent average,
founded the Friends of Albania Student Association to undertake humanitarian
projects in Albania.
She also worked jointly with the Herbert H. Carnegie Future Aces Foundation and
the Friends of Toronto Reference Library to donate 4,000 books to her destroyed
hometown library in Shkoder.
"I've learned the big challenge of changing your life. As immigrants, you open
the door of opportunity without knowing what is going to happen. And I think
that's what has transformed me into an independent person," said Caku, who will
travel to South Africa this summer to volunteer with an HIV/AIDS project.
"I'm not afraid of challenges. Failing is great. You learn so much more about
yourself when you fail. And success just tastes that much more sweeter because
it doesn't come easy."